Showing posts with label carolina. Show all posts
Showing posts with label carolina. Show all posts

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Woot! Another Award!


Hey! Get me! I've managed to snag another award! Personally I think Carolina just takes pity on me. Either that or she's helping me keep my secret life as a serial killer under wraps.

So, first up, thank you my BBFF. Carolina your encouragement means more to me than you could ever know.

Next? Do take the time to read all the whys and wherefores that go along with this, my latest prize!

Neno's Award

1. As a dedication for those who love blogging and love to encourage friendships through blogging.

2. To seek the reasons why we all love blogging.

3. Put the award in one post as soon as you receive it.

4. Don't forget to mention the person who gives you the award.

5. Answer the award's question by writing the reason why you love blogging.

Why I love blogging? Hmmm...I'm not sure I do love it. I know at this point in my journey I think I may need it...but love...no. Again, if you check my tagline, it's cheaper than therapy. It is the only outlet I have where Mel's voice can be heard. I've said it many times, I'm not a talker. Listener...yes. Thinker...sure. Overthinker? Abso-freakin-lutely. This is a way to create some kind of order inside my head...perhaps make a few people smile...or help someone who thinks he or she might be alone feeling the way that they do.

For some reason, over the years, I've had more than a few people tell me they like my writing. The first one I remember was a college professor. After returning a paper...about what I can't remember, she looked at me and said, "Melissa...you write exactly how you speak. I can actually hear your voice when I read your work. It's remarkable. I love it!" (Melissa...::shudder::) She said this in front of everyone in class. I was mortified. I turned six different shades of red and slid so far down in my chair my chin was resting on the table.

About a year later I was in the library with my friend Mark, working on an assignment for a music class. We were supposed to write new lyrics to a familiar tune. After I finished I gave him my lyrics to read. He said, "Melissa, do you realize that everything you write is absolutely you? These lyrics? Even if your name wasn't on them, I would know they were yours." (Melissa...yeah...another ::shudder::) I blushed again, took my paper back and went about my business.

Many years later I found a separated at birth twin online..whose writing I admire. After corresponding via email for months, she asked me to write a couple of pieces for her now defunct website. Her reason? She said she liked my voice. Seeing how at this point she'd never actually experienced said voice aurally, I took it to mean she liked my writing.

My Live Journal seems to tolerate my ramblings...

Carolina gives me awards...and while they are greatly appreciated? What means more to me is the fact that she tells me time after time after time that she feels I am a great writer...she loves my writing...she wants me to write a book. Who knows...a book might just be somewhere in my future.

My very long and drawn out point is this...it's taken me a LOT of years to internalize this...but maybe...just maybe...y'all have a point. Maybe this is something that Mel is good at. So to everyone who has ever read my work, complimented it, encouraged me to write, indulged me in my rantings, or keeps returning for more...THANK YOU.

6.Tag and distribute the award to as many people as you like.

Should you find blogging to be a necessary part of your life, for whatever reason? Please consider yourself tagged and add Neno's award to your collection!

Until next time y'all,

Saturday, May 09, 2009

The Oft Coveted Zombie Chicken Award

Well...I tell ya...in all the years I've been doing this...creating websites...doing the blog thing...I have NEVER received an award like this one. And honestly? It's my favorite! Why? Because it's so...MEL! ")

My BBFF...that's Best Bloggin' Friend Forever...has graciously presented me with the prestigious Zombie Chicken Award...with the following caveat:

The blogger who receives this award believes in the Tao of the zombie chicken - excellence, grace and persistence in all situations, even in the midst of a zombie apocalypse. These amazing bloggers regularly produce content so remarkable that their readers would brave a raving pack of zombie chickens just to be able to read their inspiring words. As a recipient of this world-renowned award, you now have the task of passing it on to at least 5 other worthy bloggers. Do not risk the wrath of the zombie chickens by choosing unwisely or not choosing at all!

Hmmm...knowing full well I never follow the rules that come with these awards I'll simply have to take my chances with those zombie chickens. Maybe they'll let me get by with only awarding it to the following TWO fellow bloggers:

1) Jennifer, one of two contributors from the ever humble More than Cheese---if I didn't know any better I would think SHE had created this award herself. We met online...I don't know...13 years ago? Yikes! I LOVE you my girl. One day we are going to meet each other face to face. After I hug you and cry a lot...and embarrass the both of us I'll probably just stare at my feet and mumble.

2) Mike of the aptly named Mike's Place---whom I've known for well...forever. Recently I have discovered, with great pleasure, that the man has the soul of a writer...a GOOD one. I can't wait to see what he puts down next. I love you too...Mikey. ")

Carolina of course would receive one had she not already presented it to me...and Andrew deserves one as well...if he still blogged. ; p

Perhaps that will keep the zombie chickens away from my doorstep...if only for a little while...I'm safe...but for how long...

Be blessed y'all!

Thursday, April 16, 2009

My dear Carolina has tagged me...apparently she thinks that by seeing my handwriting she will be able to figure me out. ; ) Carolina, love, if you do, you will have accomplished something no one else has to this day! ")

As with any tag there are instructions to follow. Reach for the pen or pencil of your choosing, grab a piece of paper, and write the following:

1. The name of the person who tagged me.
2. My name.
3. Right handed or left handed?
4. My favorite letters to write.
5. My least favorite letters to write.
6. 'The quick brown fox jumps over the lazy dog.'
7. The three people I want to tag. (notice I only tagged one!)



There you have it...please do share any impressions my handwriting may give you...and be NICE! ")

Hugs y'all,

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Camera Critters---There Seems To Be A Size Discrepancy Here


Camera Critters

Camera Critters is hosted by Misty Dawn.

Wally...spilling out of his bed

Carolina posted a similar picture this week...certainly worth taking a look at...and noting that feline insanity is rampant on at least two continents.

Have a blessed...relaxing...and insanity free week!

Friday, March 06, 2009

Hey Doris! I'm An Ingrid!!!


::sigh:: Isn't she insanely beautiful? I ADORE Ingrid Bergman and now I find out that *I* am an Ingrid!

My friend Doris, er, Carolina took this quiz and found out she was a Doris Day. Honestly, I figured I would be too. Imagine my utter delight when I discovered my inner Ingrid. Imagine my utter disbelief as I continued reading the results and saw myself in each and every statement. See for yourself...

You are an Ingrid -- "I am unique"

Ingrids have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.

How to Get Along with Me

* Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.
* Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself.
* Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.
* Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.
* Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!

What I Like About Being an Ingrid

* my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level
* my ability to establish warm connections with people
* admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life
* my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor
* being unique and being seen as unique by others
* having aesthetic sensibilities
* being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me

What's Hard About Being an Ingrid

* experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair
* feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved
* feeling guilty when I disappoint people
* feeling hurt or attacked when someone misunderstands me
* expecting too much from myself and life
* fearing being abandoned
* obsessing over resentments
* longing for what I don't have

Ingrids as Children Often

* have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original games
* are very sensitive
* feel that they don't fit in
* believe they are missing something that other people have
* attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.
* become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood
* feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce)

Ingrids as Parents

* help their children become who they really are
* support their children's creativity and originality
* are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings
* are sometimes overly critical or overly protective
* are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed

Dang...I'm an INGRID!!!! I freakin' ROCK! ")

If you'd like to discover your own inner female icon the quiz can be found here.

Later y'all...I need to go watch Inn of the Sixth Happiness again.

Thursday, March 05, 2009


Hey! Look! I got an award!!!!!

According to the always entertaining, and Best Bloggin' Buddy Carolina:

This award acknowledges the values that every blogger shows in his/her effort to transmit cultural, ethical, literary and personal values every day.

Now...there has been some discussion as to what those itty bitty (what I'm guessing) are words say. Well thank the heavens above for Jay, who besides being World's Best Greyhound Mum and THE Quintessential Johnny Depp fan...took the time to trace the origins of this award and save thousands of us from permanent eye strain. You can read her findings here.

This award comes with the stipulation that you pass it on to 15 other bloggers. As you well know by now I take these stipulations and toss them to the breeze. It's the only way I can delude myself into imagining I have some sort of control over my life.

SO! I'd like to present this to:

1. Xue

I would of course give one to Carolina...but she gave it to me.
Jay deserves one too...but Carolina beat me to it.
Moannie needs one too...but I see she already has one in her trophy case.

Thank you BBB! xoxoxo

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